EMOTIONAL ABUSE
Emotional abuse is the most common tactic used by abusers. It’s often mistaken that abuse only appears in a physical form. However, most abuse is often difficult to see.
COMMON SIGNS OF EMOTIONAL ABUSE:
- Frequently blames or criticizes you
- Calls you names
- Ridicules your beliefs, religion, race or class
- Blames you for “causing” the abuse
- Ridicules/makes bad remarks about your gender
- Criticizes or threatens to hurt your family or friends
- Isolates you from your family and friends
- Abuses animals
- Tries to keep you from doing something you wanted to do
- Is angry if you pay too much attention to someone or something else (children, friends, school, etc.)
- Withholds approval, appreciation or affection
- Humiliates you
- Becomes angry if meals or housework are not done to his liking
- Makes contradictory demands
- Does not include you in important decisions
- Does not allow you to sleep
- Repeatedly harasses you about things you did in the past
- Takes away car keys, money or credit cards
- Threatens to leave or told you to leave.
- Checks up on you (listens to your phone calls, looks at phone bills, checks the mileage on the car, etc.)
- Tells people you suffer from a mental illness
- Threatens to commit suicide
- Interferes with your work or school (provokes a fight in the morning, calls to harass you at work, etc.)
- Minimizes or denies being abusive
- Abuses your children
- Breaks dates and cancels plans without reason
- Uses drugs or alcohol to excuse their behavior
- Uses phrases like “I’ll show you who is boss,” “I’ll put you in line”
- Uses loud or intimidating tone of voice
- Comes home at late hours refusing an explanation
