UNDERSTANDING TRAUMA
The word “trauma” describes an experience that is distressing enough to overwhelm the involved person’s ability to cope. These are often situations in which the individual feels severely threatened, physically or emotionally. Traumatic experiences can range significantly – anything from a minor car accident to being exposed to warfare can cause trauma.
Possible Reactions to Trauma
This is a list of possible reactions to trauma, but it is very important to remember that people can respond to trauma in different ways. Someone might respond to trauma in a way that is not on this list, or someone might genuinely not have much of a reaction to an event that would be traumatizing to other individuals.
EMOTIONAL RESPONSES
Guilt
Shame
Embarrassment
Doubt
Anger
Distrust
Hopelessness
Loss of control/powerlessness
Depression
Suicidal
PHYSICAL RESPONSES
Nightmares
Shaking
Anxiety/Fear
Pain
Headaches
Sleeplessness
Exhaustion
Stomach problems
Appetite changes
Sexual fears or problems
Flashbacks
Memory problems
BEHAVIORAL RESPONSES
Lifestyle changes
Avoiding normal daily activities such as work or school
Avoiding people
Increasing use of alcohol/drugs
Refusing to talk about what happened or talking a lot about the event
Denying that the event happened
Acting like the event was no big deal
Substance use
Remember!
Every person is unique
and may have different reactions after experiencing domestic or sexual violence.
It is not your fault
Survivors of violence are never to blame for the violence — no matter where or how it happens.